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Walk a Mile in My Wife’s Shoes

I’m sure you have heard the expression that goes something like:

You don’t really know what it’s like for the other person until you’ve walked a mile in his shoes.

Well yesterday I didn’t have to walk a mile, in fact I just stayed home, but I did gain new insight into what it is like to be my wife or more accurately my children’s mother.

I was on dad duty.  How hard can that be?  It’s not so much that it’s hard but it certainly is limiting.  Between taking kids here and there, making meals, playing games, teaching cycling skills and otherwise being available, when do you get your own time?  I don’t know how my wife does it.

So Tracey, thanks for all the time and effort you put in to raising our kids.  It would be hard doing it on my own, thank you for sharing the load.

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Because I Am A Girl

To avoid any confusion I am not a girl.  Because I Am a Girl is a program of Plan Canada that is trying to raise the quality of life for girls in the developing world.   My friend Gina introduced me to this program.  I was amazed at what happens when you give a girl a chance.

Men hold almost all the power in the developing world.  This means that girls and women have fewer choices.  The latest issue of National Geographic pointed out that in some places women spend hours each day collecting water.  In some cultures women who let men carry water are regarded as lazy.  This leads mothers to leave their 4 year olds in charge of their younger siblings so their mother can fetch drinking water.  Some parents around here won’t even let their 10 year olds walk home from school.   So what really is the price of water in a society?

One of the keys to helping the developing world is breaking the cycle that prevents women from unleashing their true value in society.  Women are more than baby factories.

What happens when a girl gets a chance?

  • When a girl in lhe developing world recieves seven more years of education, she marries four years later, and has 2.2 fewer children
  • Educated girls grow into educated women, who – research shows – have healthier babies and are more likely to educate their children.
  • An extra year of primary school boosts girls’ future wages by 10 to 20 percent.
  • An extra year of secondary school boosts girls’ future wages by 15 to 25 percent.
  • When girls and women earn income, they reinvest 90 percent of it into their families, as compared to only 30 to 40 percent for a man.

… and what happens when she doesn’t.

  • 70 percent of the world’s 130 million out-of-school youth are girls.
  • One girl in seven in developing countries marries before age 15; 38 percent marry before age 18.
  • One-quarter to one-half of girls in developing countries become mothers before age 18.
  • Pregnancy is the leading cause of death among girls ages 15 to 19 worldwide.
  • Seventy-five percent of HIV-infected youth in Africa are girls.

I am a father of two girls.  I’m glad my girls live in a society where they are valued as a human and not just a woman.  Girls need a chance to grow up to contribute more of their brain power to society rather than their physical power.  Let’s let girls be girls.

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Mussels in Simple Red Wine Sauce Recipe (with pictures)

Three Ingredient Red Wine Sauce

Three Ingredient Red Wine Sauce

My wife is not fond of mussels.  If I want mussels it means cooking them on my own.  Normally I just steam up the mussels and have at it.  I was out at a local restaurant having mussels when I realized that I needed to add a bit of pizzaz to my mussel eating experience.   What I needed was a simple red wine sauce for my mussels.  By simple I mean really simple, something a bachelor could do with the ingredients he’d have on hand.  It need to have next to zero prep time.

At first I looked on the internet to see what recipes I could find.  There were a bunch of recipes but they all involved lots of prep and lots of ingredients.  What I’ve come up with a three ingredient red wine sauce recipe that’s ready in 15 mins.

Mussels in Red Wine Sauce

Mussels in Red Wine Sauce

Prep time – none, if you don’t count the shopping.
Cooking time – 15 min
Serving Size – enough for one pound of mussels

Simple Red Wine Sauce Ingredients

  • 200 ml (one full wine glass) of dry red wine
  • 125 ml (half a small bottle) of Kraft Sun Dried Tomato Oregano Dressing
  • 200 ml (half a tin) of stewed tomatoes
Simmering Red Wine Sauce

Simmering Red Wine Sauce

Equipment Required to cook red wine sauce

  • large sauce pan
  • big wooden spoon
  • measuring cup
  • wine glass (required to hold additional wine ;-)

Simple Red Wine Sauce Cooking Directions

  • pour the red wine into the sauce pan and bring to a boil
  • add dressing and stewed tomatoes
  • turn down heat to medium and simmer for 10 minutes
  • stir occasionally

How to Cook Mussels

Steamed Mussels

Steamed Mussels

The key for cooking mussels is to steam them not boil them.

  • place one inch of water in a large pot
  • bring the water to boil, can take 10 minutes depending on size of pot
  • add mussels to pot when the water is boiling vigorously
  • It will only take a few minutes to steam the mussels
  • the mussels are ready when they have opened wide
  • do not over cook the mussels as they get rubbery

Do not eat any mussel that remains closed.

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